5 Questions to Ask a Professional Wedding Officiant

1. How do you personalize the ceremony to reflect our story?

Your wedding should feel like you, not a generic template. Ask if the officiant offers custom script writing or if they have a selection of readings and rituals you can choose from. A great officiant will take the time to learn about your journey to ensure the "I Do" feels authentic.

2. Are you comfortable with our specific style of ceremony?

Whether you are planning a secular celebration, a spiritual union, or an interfaith ceremony, you need to ensure your officiant is experienced in that realm. At Kasey King, Wedding Officiant, I specialize in performing ceremonies throughout the Greater Charleston area that respect and celebrate each couple's unique background.

3. Will you lead our wedding rehearsal?

The rehearsal is where the logistics are polished. It is important to know if your officiant will be there to coordinate the processional, manage the wedding party, and ensure everyone knows exactly where to stand so the big day runs smoothly.

4. How do you handle "unplugged" ceremony announcements?

If a couple wants guests to put their phones away, they should ask how you typically manage that request gracefully.

5. Do you handle the legal filing of the marriage license?

The most important part of the job (legally speaking!) happens after the ceremony. Confirm that your officiant will take responsibility for signing and filing your marriage license with the appropriate probate court so that your union is officially recognized by the state.

Why a Professional Matters

While having a friend officiate can seem sentimental, a professional brings a level of expertise and calm that allows you to simply be present in the moment. From handling microphone issues to navigating complex family dynamics, an experienced pro ensures the focus stays exactly where it should be: on your love story.